Growth, from the self to the world
The child is based on "confidante → Zhibi" the law of growth.
Just come to this world, the child is a typical "self-centered": thought that the world is just the same way as they see I do not know this world, there are other possibilities; that their view is that all the world I do not know the opinions of others may be different from his.
Gradually, children grow up, and from self to the world and know the world is not their turn around, and know that you can look at the problem from different angles. Psychology known as "going from a self-centered and toward self-centeredness."
Self-centered with each other corresponds to the self-centered development, and neither is dispensable. As a parent, you can accompany the child slowly through this section of the road, enjoying their rendered playful element in development.
2 ~ 7-year-olds are in the self-centered and self-centered to the second stage. In the self-centered, they may think that dreams are real, fairy tale is real, all things are alive. They need someone constantly watching them. Speak, hoping to stop the hands of all people matter, concentrate on listening to them speak. When you want to play, hope that all people are able to play with them. In regard to the self-centered, the children begin to understand things, the relationship between the objective, more willing to meet with others, learning respect for others and help each other. This is the only way children grow up, but if the child's heart has always been stuck at this stage or extreme, they can not adapt to the world. In fact, does have some adults to stay at some stage in the self-centered life in a lot of trouble.