Cultivating the children's self-confidence of parents seven words
Self-confidence is the driving force of life is a source of strength for the child advances. Therefore, the parents in the education process of their children, we must attach importance to the cultivation of their self-confidence. It can be said that many pupils lagging behind, or playing truant, weariness of the children, all from the loss of self-confidence. Only since that no longer count on something, people will give up, learn the same, only the child that he did not want to learn anymore, he would cut class, weariness. In fact, even those who study poor children, as long as we can to rekindle the fires of their inner self-confidence, they are foolproof you can catch up with them.
1, child, you are still great.
2, child, you are not that stupid.
3, tell yourself: "I can do."
4, I appreciate your talent in the area.
5, I believe you can get back the confidence to learn.
6, are you the future National Cheng Kung device, and a good work in this regard.
7, kids, we are also going to try?
Let your baby way from small self-confident 28
As a parent, of course, hope that their baby is very small self-confidence, but confidence not born. The following is to build confidence in the baby's 28 method, you may wish to try.
1. Take seriously the requirements of your baby. When he put forward with great expectations the phone: "Mom, Milk." You can not meet him outside a moment, and told him a specific time: "Back home, my mother and get you, okay?" Often ignore the baby's needs, will be so he was not being taken seriously and lose confidence.
2. Weekend trips with a baby, asked for his opinions, but do not ask "Do you want to go," but this question "Do you want to go to the zoo or aquarium," and give him the range of choice and let him make their own choice, will be added confidence in ourselves.
3. Baby just learning to talk, you teach him the "big watermelon," he says, "Atlantic grasp." Do not laugh at him, nor was deliberately emphasized that a change in time to teach him. In baby language learning period, your laugh to make him lose confidence and interest in learning languages.
4. Baby questions, patience to listen, if you are able to answer, honestly told him. Let him know that any person has failed to do, to dispel his fear of other people's psychology, thus increasing self-confidence.
5. To discuss the tone with whatever your baby to do things, such as "the newspaper showed her mother, will you?" Let the child know that people need, is the best way to improve his self-confidence.
6. Let your baby at home, the most eye-catching posted on the wall of his graffiti; in cupboard for the baby to be a display rack, display his small production. Honor the best can stimulate a child's self-confidence.
7. To the baby in a room, without conditions, can give him a part of the room and let him have a free play, unfettered small world. Because they have their own "territories" in his heart filled with pride, which let him adding to confidence.
8. Do not always because the child is great confusion in the room or on your desktop blame baby, but to teach his own clean up scattered toys, and with him to do. Mother's tolerance is to develop baby self-confidence soil.
9. Do not baby said: "The sister was going to count, and you will not, you may very stupid!" Even if he really worse than other children. Always take more than his children and he is quite strong, can defeat the best children's self-confidence
10. Take your baby to the supermarket, the pending payment handed his hands and let him to the cashier. He also will not be afterwards, but at least let him know that money can buy things. Gradually let the children grasp the pocket, so that he headed, would increase the confidence of his life.
11. To buy baby clothes, let the children pick their own colors and styles. Perhaps he chose the color you do not like it, but do not negate his vision. Respect for the child's views have been the beginning of his self-confidence.
12. And the kids to see his favorite cartoon, and his discussion of favorite characters and lines on his point of view expressed interest. Equality, coexistence and interaction are the ladder to his self-confidence.
13. To clean their own separate little baby socks, a small handkerchief, even if it does not wash clean. The child's self-confidence from you every trivial thing for him in recognition.
14. When the baby shows Beishi, story-telling and singing, when he beat time for that to be, and. Training he dares to stride on stage performances, is the exercise of his self-confidence.
15. Let your baby close to strange children, and actively encouraged him to free association of people of all ages. To develop his social skills is actually to develop his self-confidence.
16. To help your baby develop a detailed plan, and remind him to implement. Program to help babies develop inside to practice piano for example, developing the plan, and his consultation time. Implementation reminded him, "Baby, we are now practicing the guitar, right?" Let him cultivate the habit of doing things according to plan. Do things with confidence, a man can be full of confidence.
17. Baby to play cola bottles, shoe boxes and other waste, not to arbitrarily stop him. Children love to explore things that interested him, you have to stop him interest, also dampened the confidence of his explorations.
18. A child to go on puzzle difficulty to encourage the children themselves think of ways to resolve these difficulties. Really can not think of a solution, you can side pointing. To let him self-confidence to overcome difficulties doubled.
19. And the children get along, we often find commendable specific reason for the language to encourage him with praise, but do not hollow praise the child. It can be said: "Baby know urinating, and there is progress in citizenship." Do not say: "Baby you're really smart, a good mother like you." Specific praise to his self-confidence, empty praise let him arrogant.
20. Originally did not want to take him to McDonald's, but promised him casually go, has promised not to be realized. Your dishonesty let him lose confidence, you lose your confidence.
21. To help your baby to play the positive aspects of personality, let him become a personality. Baby is impatient, it exercises the speed of his work; it is stolid, articles on the exercise of his reason. Forced him to change his mettle will make you lose confidence in him led to his loss of self-confidence.
22. To teach a child, he recognized his own appearance. Example, told him that although he is not a big eye, but the small eyes, as long as God is very good-looking. Many non-self-confidence from their physical appearance is often not recognized.
23. To the children the books and materials in support of his work in our own dreams to do. Their children to recognize their talents and abilities, he would be more self-confident.
24. As far as possible away from reliance on in life baby. Kindergarten to time seek to engage the alarm clock to wake him, rather than her mother kept calling. Children can live independently without relying on the situation in full of confidence.
25. Let your baby learn to make a sightseeing tour from childhood. When traveling with a baby more than him about the encounter animals, plants, geography, allusions and other kinds of knowledge. Experienced and knowledgeable in order to self-confidence has doubled.
26. No insults to punish the child's fault. Abuse not only against the child's self-confidence, but also so that children are more rebellious.
27. Baby suffered setbacks, with the moderate tone, together with his analysis of this experience, next time there will not be the same error. To re-summon his self-confidence, particularly important.
28. Parents, subject to reasonable standards of conduct, doing respectable person. Parents are not respected in society, the most damage a child's self-confidence.