As the child's father, can not sit down beside her daughter to see her paint a picture, shows that he attached great importance to the child's talent to learn, but the attitude of the father gave his daughter's paint poured cold water on enthusiasm. After listening to the child's father constantly deny their own words, how much she can keep the desire and passion to create it?
A dad (Daddy food) to a child psychology expert letter:
My daughter is 4 years old this year, small classes in kindergarten, has learned a semester painting. It stands to reason that she should be painting pretty good. May be a matter of fact, her paintings paintings is simply bad, such as small animals, trees, flowers, the sun these simple things, and she picked up the brush to the East Tu Tu, Western painting, not painting a good outline on the rush Tu color. Bunny's eyes should be painted red, and she just wishes painted black, the grass is green she was chosen to be painted blue, the color often painted to outline the outside it looks a little like a bayonet, it is ugly. Then she quickly put the painting showed me: "Dad, you see, I draw good." I look nothing like her to paint, color coated takes a far cry from the real thing, and my heart really has anxious angry, constantly criticized her painted poorly. Now, she adamantly refused to go on the draw lessons, and the face of this situation, how can I do?
FAQ Expert:
As the child's father, can not sit down beside her daughter to see her paint a picture, shows that he attached great importance to the child's talent to learn, but the attitude of the father gave his daughter's paint poured cold water on enthusiasm. After listening to the child's father constantly deny their own words, how much she can keep the desire and passion to create it?
Children's paintings reflect the child's psychological development and physical development of the situation, so we often used to test children's paintings of children (baby food) in the psychological development of the situation. However, the test results is not static, it is with the children's growth and development is constantly changing, and we adults need to develop a vision to see children's drawings. So, it is important to what kind of vision and their parents treat the children's paintings, in good faith to accept the child's actual age, the level of acceptance of children's psychological development, respect for children's drawing, when the enthusiasm and their work. Because the painting is an individual with a strong subjective art, painting it by age, experience, life experience, a comprehensive self-cultivation and other implications. 4-year-old child's life experiences determine their painting paintings can only see the world from age 4 to 4-year-old experience of understanding of the world, to 4-year-old mental representation they see the world.
For the kids now "adamantly refused to go on the draw lessons" situation, parents need to be assured first of all a child's enthusiasm for painting, this recognition of his efforts. Indeed, the painting of the 4-year-old children, is not an easy thing to do, with their fingers and wrists and development of the actual situation and the hand-eye coordination and ability to control the brush direction, speed, strength and distance, which requires a gradual development and accumulation of experiences.
In the children are learning how to paint the issue, the experts also gives the following recommendations:
※ cultivate children's interest in painting
The reality of life with their children and cultivate interest and encourage children to draw some of their own interest in things, such as small animals, trees, flowers, sun, moon and so on. As long as things of interest, they would be willing to be produced. Most children this age are still in phase of the graffiti period, no clear sense of hope to express themselves the performance of the theme. It is also necessary for children going through a process of painting. Over this process on children's psychological development is not necessarily a good thing.
※ guide their children carefully observed the things around them
Have more contact with their children to observe the things around them, on their shape and demeanor have perceptual knowledge of things presented by a variety of colors have a certain understanding, left in the minds of first impression, they may be used only brush reproduction these things.
※ used to enjoy it and look at the development of children's paintings, do not use lightly, "a lot like, okay," to assess the children's paintings
Parents on a child's painting in good faith to appreciate and accept that their children's enthusiasm is the best Tianchai refueling, the child will be more enthusiasm for the fire burned the more prosperous, happy to use the brush to create what they see the world. Skill and subject performance is only a matter of time. Otherwise, the child will be as they are now, "adamantly refused to go on the draw lessons."
In short, for a child painting, the parents of the most important thing is to cultivate children's drawing of the enthusiasm and interest in the performance of a happy society on the basis of themes and techniques.